Ayessa is the blogger & content creator behind UnDiplomaticWife, a lifestyle blog where she shares her home, health, expat, travel & organizing hacks as a bipolar, plussize diplomat’s wife.
She is also a mental health & self-love advocate for women.As the founder of DeclutterMNL - a group of 12,000+ members & growing - and Minimaluxe.com, she teaches best practices of decluttering & selling online.
Through her Decluttering Concierge services & Move Coaching she has decluttered many expat & diplomat’ homes to help them move with ease.
As a diplomat's wife she has moved her entire household - with baby, dog & car - three times to different continents in a span of 6 years.
This 2021 she is tackling a move from Manila to Switzerland during a pandemic.

Originally from Malaysia, Pueyen lived in England for 10 years before moving to Tokyo in 2014. As a professional, Pueyen is registered as Chartered Accountant and Certified Internal Auditor who currently works for MetLife Insurance in Japan. She specializes in the emerging Data Governance area, where she plays an important role in reshaping the culture and environment in data management.

As an individual and a parent, Pueyen strives to become a female leader in Data. Pueyen believes in leading by example and that our environment plays a big part in shaping our mindset and life-long journeys. Outside work, she devotes personal time to master key insights about mindset. She recently became a certified therapist with the intention of empowering more women and children to lead themselves with a growth mindset, grit, and a self-fulfilled life that is happy and healthy. 

This month, she will talk to us about her "Me Project" - an incredible two-year self-led transformational process - and how we each might set out on our own personal journey of self-discovery and inner growth. Her essential insights will help cultivate your Growth Mindset and will empower you as an individual - in life and in your career.